The ruling force of life flow

Interest = Passion = PD = Voltage = Life force = Energy = Intent = Desire = Excitement = Exhuberance = Drive = Motivation = Love = Purpose

Everything begins with access/connection.
Then the PD is setup, and energies move in that direction, the flow/animation of life happens.
That also creates the electric arc flow, and the feeling of purpose comes.

The conduits from the non-physical to the physical, like an electric arc where sparks fly.

These things simply happen.

They are not created by the self.

They are part of the maya-flow, dream-flow, perception-flow.

The self itself happens, a self happens in certain conditions.

Thinking is conditioned = like different mechanical or electrical circuits of patterns/lensing/firing of event sequences and subroutines.

Feelings happen as conditioned responses in the entire system.

Insight on bullies

They want you to become just like them.
If you fight back enough you become just like them, and they win.

It is not so simple. 

It is quite sinister.

They are forcibly vampiring your attention and energy onto them and whatever they are invested in.

Like Kreese from Cobra Kai was ultimately trying to destroy the "snowflake" generation and make everyone like himself.

So he was constantly recreating/simulating similar conditions as had been in the Vietnam war, so that the others would become like himself.

It is a very twisted way of getting forced connection and empathy, by subjecting to the other to the same conditions you were subjected to, and then recreating the same feelings in the other as you once faced.

Like a demon which circumstances created, now wants to create those same circumstances to the other gods it meets, to reduce them also to its own demonic state.

The fundamental 2 approaches are: 

We can elevate ourselves ---or---- We can pull down others to our level.

The bullies fall in the latter category.

They want to reduce everyone to their level.

If you win with a bully by fighting with them, you lose, because now you are in an even worse state.

You have invested even more energy outward than the bully to get him down.

Violence begets more violence, it never ends, unlike what is shown in shows/movies.

Anyone who is not seeking liberation is a bully.

Because there are only 2 directions one can go: lift up or pull down.

The max lift-up possible is liberation.

So anyone not seeking liberation is seeking the opposite, that is the pull down direction.

Which means he/she is by definition a bully.