Cords of the Astral relational body

There are way more limitations that I can see.

Unseen limitations - the colossus of the astral relational body.

Astral cords connecting me to others.

Every enmity and runa there in the cords, can make me potentially suffer.
Every friendship and love there in the cords, can bring me potential joy.

Most of these cords maybe unconscious and only come to light when the person enters the conscious mind.
In a way, the tree of life connects everyone to everyone through cords.

Could it be interaction is that astral cord brought to the conscious?

But the other end of the cord is another conscious entity too.

So they can cause pain in the cord from their ignorance/delusion/false-self-identity anything.
So one becomes responsible for the entity on the other side too.

Life is also like tetris,

Things places people also constantly change,

Very slowly like a glacier at times, but they do change.

So I guess there are different time-spans to be spent with different ppl.

Maybe this was preordained before birth?

That connection cord is revealed depending on who you are spending time with.

Whether they bring you joy or sorrow depends upon the nature of the cord at that time.

Ofc this is all the journey of the relatively more permanent jiva that moves from ignorance to enlightenment.

So if everything is used for liberation as a Nishchala tattva, 

Then that means the person is already liberated at the heart level.

So all the pain and anger at the other could be the astral cord pain,
Like similar to spraining your ankle or pulling a muscle?

Any attempt to fight with the person is powerless against the cord itself.

I feel it is not possible to really sever connection with any being.

However if someone is really unworkable, 

It is not their time, and it's maybe best to let them free, so that they can discover truth on their own.

Change and Wisdom

More change = More wisdom

What is one's value to the other?

We do onto others, what we do onto ourselves first.
The way we treat/deal/work on ourselves is the way we treat/deal/work with others too.
One's value then is basically what does onto oneself.

The value I bring to the other,

Is the same as the value I bring to myself.

I serve others the way I serve myself.

That is, whatever I do onto myself.

That same doing just gets extended/projected to the other.

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-- Duty-obligation seeking, comfort/security seeking, ritual seeking = 1c

-- Pleasure seeking (good vibes only, no pain, nothing difficult, nothing stressing, all easy, anti-depressant stuff) = 2c

-- Power/Control seeking, Worldly knowledge seeking = 3c

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-- Enlightenment-Understanding of Dissolution-Seeking (digging into areas of life where there is powerlessness and seeking to empower), Self-knowledge seeking, Healing focus on the different hells within, direct seeing (DE/DK/DP), Transmutation of knowledge and understanding to the higher abstract spiritual planes = 5c/6c