USB file transfer and food analogy for the understanding that I desire from others.

USB file transfer analogy for the understanding that I desire from others.

The understanding I want from people,
Is like 'USB transfer' of my file,
And installation of that file in their laptop/phone.
So say I went for a 1 month trip,
And say I want to transmit a 500mb file of my experiences to other people,
What happens is that,
As I make the connection with wire,
And start transmitting...,
They pull out the USB plug after I have transmitted a random 1mb fragment of the file.
They then now have a random 1mb incomplete fragment of that file I was sending them.
They then cut off the conversation and change the topic to something else.
Then I wonder what happens to that junk file fragment they have stored.
I guess it would go into their recycle bin as a useless file?
To be deleted in a day at best?
So my real desire for understanding would be,
That they download all of the 500mb of my file,
In a high speed connection (better listening, attention, interest),
And after receiving all of the 500mb,
I would like them to install that file on their phone/laptop,
And then I would have transmitted the real essence and it would become a shared psychic experience.

Another similar analogy could be that of food.
I give them food, and I would like them to eat and digest it through all its stages to extract the essence of what I was trying to convey.
But here also they simply taste it just a little and spit it out.
When I understand people,
I do the whole thing.
I let them talk it out fully,
And then download their file,
And extract the essence of that by installing that within me (understanding, contemplating, extracting)
But because this is unrequited all the time,

Nowadays even I just skim-hear things and drop it off without showing full interest.