Anger from outside is force.
From inside, anger feels like powerlessness-frustration.
It is inefficient wastage mostly.
It is trying to change something that cannot be changed that way.
Either nothing will change i.e. your force will be met with equal resistance,
Or it may even become counter-productive,
I.e. close down the other further
And/or they may attack+damage you now,
And/or they may built up anger within themselves to release on you later.
Anger is the ultimately the frustration at the other not being receptive/open.
But often the way the other is, is entirely impersonal.
They can only love/receive/be open to what you share,
If they are that way to those same aspects within themselves.
A person who has no connection to himself and is also violent against all the parts of him that communicate his real feelings to him, will be the same way with you and your feeling sharing etc.
So their violence is simply a reflection of their violence at themselves now displaced onto you.
It is a displacement.
Ultimately, people treat you the way they treat themselves.
A person who has truly seen themselves in complete honesty and depth,
Will have deep compassion and insight naturally.
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