Quell the violence within you, to see the peace outside you

All Severity = Severance.

Both cutting off someone and aggressively pursuing someone are forms of violence.

What has to come will come, what has to go will go.

All denial and refusal is violence too.

All separateness and specific limited identification is violence too.

All exclusion is violence.

Live with ease and awareness. 

There is no hurry or haste for anything.

Focus on what you desire, and the rest will simply rearrange itself.

Whether you do it yourself or have a master do it for you, hardly matters.

You are moving towards your longing, that is the only thing that matters.

Let everything be the stepping stone to that inexhorable longing.

Others can only give me what I am ready to give myself.

Others can only take from me, what they are ready to receive themselves.

All relationship/interaction is a bi-directional symbiotism.

You receive what you judge you deserve to receive.

You give what you deem others' deserve.

Cutting others off is no different from cutting yourself off.

It is all a form of extremism, splitting of polarity, and violence.

Quell the violence within you, then you will stop experiencing it outside too. 

The Self and the Outside are mirrors of each other.

You only ever experience your own state of being.