The outer world enacts your desires

The outer world enacts your desires.

When another person complains about the things that you already find buggy,

Then your own complaint has been offloaded and you are free.

The aspect that the other represents/emanates, 

And the aspects that the other attends to,

And the aspects that the other expresses,

Means you can offload, delegate those things off your energies.
It frees you of those things in a sense.

For instance traveling with anir means,
I can turn off attention towards all the things he is doing.

But this also means, I would do a lot or almost all of that, if he were not there.

So when many people are there, they regulate the place and maintain greater sanity, taking my anxiety off of maintaining certain harmonies.

Similarly my presence would also be freeing them to be as mundane as they want.

Because I am immersed in those ethereal dimensions.
When someone takes up something fully,

It frees the others of that load, whatever that thing is.

So a good complementary relation would be:

# I do what I like to do and you don't like to do.

# You do what you like to do which I don't like to do.
If both are aware of the contribution of the other,

Then there is a mutual empathy too.